Ms. Babita Kumari at the workshop
At 11AM on 13 November 2019, a personal hygiene workshop was held in the quarters of Japan India Friendship Medical Center (JIFMC) for the residents of the adjacent Danpur village in the suburb of Bodhgaya, Bihar. JIFMC has been collaborating with AMDA on local humanitarian initiatives in the region. The event was co-organized by AMDA and Ecoles de la Terre, a charity organization led by Mr. Rajesh who happens to live nearby.
The lecturer at the workshop was AMDA Peace Clinic staff Ms. Babita Kumari. Throughout the event, she remained composed and eloquent no matter how noisy the crowd was. I felt it was a kind of temperament which we Japanese do not possess as we are inclined to shy away from being in public. Despite her being a modest character in the clinic, I was surprised by such a gap.
It is often said that what it takes to be the best international conference chairman is “how to silence the Indian delegation and let the Japanese do the talking.” However, this comes as something completely natural for Indians who, considering their cultural diversity, tend to actively express themselves through spoken words.
The villagers of Danpur are deemed to be of the lowest class in Indian society, and indeed, they are very poor. Compared to the adults, it seemed that the children had never cared about how ragged their clothes were. On the other hand, women in the village were dressed in colorful sari: its colors so vivid it was enough to conceal their plight.
One pitfall for us foreign aid givers is that our assistance may leave condescending impression on them as if we were acting as their patrons. The first step to avoid this is to relate to their feelings and think of what we can do together about the poverty with which they are faced.
Accordingly, as we thought “sermons” would be of less help to them compared to giving food, we provided snacks to participants after the workshop as a reward which could also fulfill their cravings. In fact, it matters greatly to JIFMC whether it gains support from these people or not.
This time, I discussed with Ms. Vedha (see past articles for who she is) that we should establish a day to celebrate JIFMC’s anniversary and distribute a blanket to each household on that occasion. As each item costs about four dollars, the budget to cover 25 families would be 100 dollars. Although I initially thought we could provide more, it was wise to hear her worthy advice as she knows what works and what doesn’t. She said giving too much will do no good, and added that the blanket distribution should be done from time to time because people will appreciate more rather than doing it one-off. As her name speaks for itself, Vedha means “wisdom” in the Sanskrit language.
People from the Danpur village
Handing out snacks to children
JIFMC’s property boasts approximately 4,000 square meters and its buildings have been still at the planning stage. For now, we are hoping to make use of this open land for the villagers who are willing to make vegetables. Once the crops are harvested, we can turn this into a nutritional program by asking local mothers to cook for their children using the agricultural produce.
The only places we will try to keep off-limit are the toilet and kitchen at the JIFMC building. Just as rural Indian schools separate toilets for pupils and teachers, we think it is appropriate to draw a line in the use of certain facilities. Similarly, the division of labor is one Indian social norm which the Japanese are not familiar with. This is to say that cleaning public places or shared toilets is not everyone’s work and it is only a certain group of people that takes charge of it. For us Japanese, we need to be considerate at all times not to break or interfere with such a norm by applying our own yardstick.
The property of JIFMC
The office building
The water pump for daily use and drinking water which we set last year has been well appreciated by the local people. Three months ago, the pump had been left broken for an electrical fault to which a local power company failed to respond swiftly. This was immediately fixed after Mr. Bhardwaj, who used to head the state police, asked the company to repair it.
The broken electric switchboard